IrDA Framework is the Software Developer Kit (SDK) for software developers that provides an easy access to the IrDA features on Windows desktop platforms. IrDA Framework is the part of Wireless Communication Library but can be used as stand alone library.

SUPPORTED FEATURES
Discovering IrDA devices
Monitoring IrDA devices (Lazy Discovering)
Querying IrDA devices properties
Querying IrDA devices IAS records
Connecting to IrDA devices (Client Mode)
Accept connection from IrDA devices (Server Mode)
Adding IAS records into IrDA Server IAS database
Monitoring IrDA hardware changes
Support for 3-Wire, 9-Wire and IrLPT modes
OBEX Object Push Profile (OPP) client
OBEX File Transfer Profile (FTP) client
OBEX Object Push Profile (OPP) server

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